On December 25, in the heart of Livorno, Italy, Chrissie McClatchie and her family found themselves amidst a unique Christmas celebration aboard Windstar Cruises’ Star Legend. Opting for a small-ship Mediterranean cruise over the traditional holiday at home in France, McClatchie, her husband, and their two young daughters embarked on a seven-night journey from Rome to Barcelona. The experience, however, was not without its challenges, as McClatchie soon discovered the intricacies of cruising with children.
The decision to cruise with kids on a luxury liner like the Star Legend is not one taken lightly. While the allure of a festive dinner in an elegant setting is undeniable, the reality of managing young children in such environments can be daunting. McClatchie’s youngest daughter, in a moment of protest, demonstrated why Windstar’s minimum age policy is typically set at eight years. Despite the occasional meltdown, McClatchie found that with some strategic planning, small-ship cruising with children can be both manageable and enjoyable.
Understanding Small-Ship Dynamics
Small-ship cruising offers a different atmosphere compared to the larger, more family-focused cruise lines like Disney or Royal Caribbean. Windstar and similar luxury lines often have fewer amenities specifically designed for children, which can be both a blessing and a challenge. The absence of dedicated kids’ programming means families must be creative in finding ways to entertain their young ones.
McClatchie noted that while few cruise lines explicitly ban children, the lack of child-centric activities can deter families from booking. However, for those willing to embrace the unique environment, small-ship cruises offer a more intimate and relaxed setting, often with fewer children on board, which can appeal to families seeking a quieter experience.
Tips for a Successful Family Cruise
Prioritize Holiday Sailings
One of McClatchie’s key takeaways is the importance of timing. Cruises scheduled during school holidays, such as Christmas and New Year, are more likely to have other children on board. During their voyage, out of 193 passengers, more than a dozen were under 18, traveling in multi-generational family units. This provided opportunities for her daughters to make new friends, enhancing their onboard experience.
Stay Onboard During Port Days
While shore excursions are a highlight for many cruisers, McClatchie suggests that sometimes staying onboard can be more rewarding for families. On days when most passengers disembark for excursions, the ship becomes a playground for the children. This strategy allowed her family to enjoy the ship’s amenities without the pressure of adhering to a strict schedule or worrying about disturbing other guests.
Plan Your Own Shore Excursions
For families with children, self-organized shore excursions can be more accommodating than the ship’s offerings, which often cater to adult interests. McClatchie planned visits to Christmas markets in Monaco and a walking tour of Barcelona, complete with tapas stops, ensuring activities were engaging for her daughters.
Embrace Family Time
Without the presence of a kids club, families can rediscover the joys of simple entertainment. McClatchie found that a pack of cards and the ship’s games corner provided ample amusement. Despite having access to in-cabin movies, the cruise was surprisingly light on screen time, allowing for more meaningful interactions.
The Broader Implications
Small-ship cruising with children requires a shift in expectations and a willingness to adapt. While not every passenger may appreciate the presence of young children, McClatchie observed that many, especially the crew, were welcoming and accommodating. This positive reception left a lasting impression on her daughters, who fondly remember the crew members they met.
As more families consider alternative vacation options, the demand for family-friendly amenities on luxury cruises may increase. Cruise lines could benefit from incorporating more flexible and inclusive options for families, potentially broadening their customer base.
Ultimately, McClatchie’s experience underscores the potential for small-ship cruises to offer unique and memorable family vacations, provided parents are prepared to navigate the challenges and embrace the adventure.
