In a candid conversation, actors Benedict Cumberbatch and Olivia Colman explore the dynamics of marriage and career in their upcoming film “The Roses,” a modern adaptation of Warren Adler’s 1981 novel “The War of the Roses.” The film, set to release in 2025, offers a fresh take on the complexities of marital relationships, swapping the original’s darker themes for a more nuanced exploration of love and ambition.
The film’s narrative follows Ivy, played by Colman, and Theo, portrayed by Cumberbatch, as they navigate their careers and family life after relocating from London to California. Ivy’s career as a chef skyrockets, while Theo, an architect, struggles professionally, leading to tensions over their luxurious beach villa. Despite their challenges, the couple grapples with the desire to remain together, highlighting the modern pressures on relationships.
The Modern Marriage Dilemma
Screenwriter Tony McNamara, known for his work with Yorgos Lanthimos, attributes the couple’s struggles to the demands of capitalism. “Both partners have to work,” McNamara explains, “and balancing that with a partner, children, and a mortgage is ridiculous.” This sentiment resonates with many contemporary couples who find themselves juggling personal and professional aspirations.
McNamara elaborates on the gender dynamics at play, noting, “It’s really hard for men because they’re brought up for a sort of ego success.” This theme is reflected in Theo’s character, who channels his thwarted ambitions into his children’s achievements. Meanwhile, Ivy’s success creates its own set of challenges, as she envies Theo’s bond with their twins.
Reimagining Gender Roles
Colman and Cumberbatch offer their perspectives on the evolving nature of gender roles within marriage. “What I like about this is it’s not about genders, it’s about roles at home,” Colman asserts, suggesting that the film’s themes could apply to any couple, regardless of gender. Cumberbatch adds, “There was an idealism in the 60s, the fledgling of equality,” acknowledging the historical shifts in relationship dynamics.
The film’s director, Jay Roach, who initially aspired to be a couples therapist, uses “The Roses” to explore the intricacies of relationships. Roach remarks, “I take on projects to work my own shit out,” highlighting his personal investment in understanding what makes relationships succeed or fail.
The Cultural Divide: UK vs. US
“The Roses” also delves into the cultural differences between British and American approaches to relationships. Roach observes, “Olivia and Benedict are hilariously dark and insulting, even off camera,” contrasting with the frankness of their American friends in the film. This cultural interplay adds depth to the narrative, showcasing varying expressions of love and conflict.
Cumberbatch and Colman, both beloved in the US, reflect on their experiences across the Atlantic. Cumberbatch appreciates the American ethos of reinvention, while Colman humorously recounts her introduction to American sensitivities around language, particularly the infamous “c-word.”
The Realities of Love and Marriage
Despite the film’s exploration of marital discord, both Cumberbatch and Colman express a genuine appreciation for love. “I love love,” Colman declares, while Cumberbatch acknowledges the romantic idealism that often accompanies it. Yet, he notes, “Eventually one of you will be dog-tired and doing the bins,” emphasizing the everyday realities that underpin romantic relationships.
The actors’ personal lives mirror the film’s themes, as both are in long-term marriages. Colman has been with writer Ed Sinclair since university, and Cumberbatch is married to theatre director Sophie Hunter. Their reflections on love and partnership offer a counterpoint to the film’s more cynical characters, who question the sustainability of traditional romantic ideals.
As “The Roses” prepares to hit screens, it promises to spark conversations about the evolving nature of relationships in a world where personal and professional aspirations often collide. Through humor and insight, Cumberbatch and Colman invite audiences to reflect on the complexities of love, ambition, and the roles we play in each other’s lives.
